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  • AI Anxiety and the Fantasy of Early Retirement: A Midlife Career Reckoning

    I’m scared AI will take my job. I also fantasize about not having one. A very stable midlife career reckoning.

    Neha Thapar
    April 11, 2026

  • Post-Pandemic WFH: The Glorious, Glitchy Era of Working From Home

    Five years after swearing off offices forever — still in joggers, still muting myself, still defending my snacks.

    Neha Thapar
    April 22, 2025

  • The Conundrum of Coming and Going: Living Between Two Countries

    Another airport lounge, another flight home. On belonging to two places and being fully at home in neither.

    Neha Thapar
    December 3, 2019

  • Growing Up: On Family, Marriage and Becoming the Adult

    A 6 am wake-up on a family holiday, and the quiet realisation that you are now the grown-up in the room.

    Neha Thapar
    July 12, 2019

  • The Peace and Quiet: Finding Stillness in Central Park

    Sitting in Central Park surrounded by noise, and feeling genuinely still for the first time in months.

    Neha Thapar
    July 8, 2019

  • The Actual End Game: Career Advice Nobody Puts on a Panel

    After a panel full of clichéd five-year-plan questions, what people actually queued up to ask me.

    Neha Thapar
    May 1, 2019

  • Treat Yourself: Why I Booked Mexico as a Reward for Working Hard

    Three days in Mayakoba, earned. On rewarding yourself properly instead of waiting for permission.

    Neha Thapar
    April 13, 2019

  • Chocolate Cake and the Art of Wanting Things

    Imagining exactly what you want down to the last detail, and what happens when reality delivers something else.

    Neha Thapar
    April 7, 2019

  • It’s Time to Go: The Loneliness of Leaving India Again

    Three weeks of family, friends and work ending — and the particular dread of going back to being on your own.

    Neha Thapar
    March 8, 2019

  • Making Friends as an Adult in a New City

    A year alone in San Francisco taught me I am fine on my own — and how much harder adult friendship is to build.

    Neha Thapar
    February 8, 2019

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Glitter in my greys

Because midlife deserves more sparkle and less subtlety.

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